What better way to embrace the winter holidays than by sharing the joy of gift-giving with your community? Getting the perfect present is exciting, but, especially in high school, there is often conflict in finding a balance between price, practicality and personal connection. Whether you view gift-giving as a money-draining chore or as a sentimental custom, there is something for everyone in this guide.
The significance of gift-giving goes far beyond materialism. It is an act that helps demonstrate one’s care and affection towards loved ones, and a tradition that brings people closer together.
“Gift-giving is actually one of my love languages, so I think it’s a very good way of showing people that you appreciate them,” FHS senior Noriah Guzman said. “I think it’s very sweet. I love getting gifts even if it’s not something I would’ve bought for myself.”
First, one has to consider the amount of effort they would like to put into the gift. The definition of effort varies from person to person, but is usually dependent on the price and time put into making or buying the item. The thought behind a present, regardless of what it is, adds an extra layer of care.
“I definitely try getting more things for the people that I’m closer to or that I care more about,” Guzman says. “And when it comes to people that I’m not that close to or don’t really talk to I’ll either not give them a gift or get them a smaller gift.”
Aside from gift cards, ideas for low-effort gifts include plants, clothing, jewelry and other accessories, candles, perfumes and other aromatics, makeup and socks. For an extra touch, you can stuff them with candy or other goodies. One-item gifts can often come off as redundant and impersonal, which is why it is important to keep the receiving person in mind, even if it is a last-minute gift that requires less time. If buying a candle, think about a scent that person likes. When buying jewelry, pay attention to the type of metal being used, and if buying clothes, think back to a time when your recipient mentioned wanting to buy a shirt or jacket but never got the chance to. It is also recommended to include a handwritten card with the present to further show care.
“Sometimes people don’t have a lot of time and I respect that, but you can also tell when someone puts zero effort into a gift,” FHS senior Milo Wholley said.
If you are on a budget, consider giving someone you are close to a low-cost personal gift. This can be a framed photo or photo album, DIY jewelry or keychains, their favorite snacks, a mixtape, bath bomb, memory jar or even something based on an inside joke.
Regardless of what one receives and gives, people must remember to be grateful for the experience and intentions they receive. Remember, the time and care invested in the community is the true meaning of this holiday season.
